San Francisco Bay Area (sexual and social)

• Bay Area Women Of Color Photo Project
• Butch Femme Socials
• Society of Janus (*we have a membership reciprocity agreement with them)
• The Fairy Butch Web Dynasty
• The Pacific Center A lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning community service center in Berkeley.
• Rainbow Community Center of Contra Costa County
• San Francisco Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Center
• Billy DeFrank Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Center, San Jose
• Rainbow Women's Chorus, San Jose
• Santa Clara County Leather Association
• San Francisco Defenders Spiritual based Leather Club (men & women)
• Alameda County Leather Organization

Other Women's S/M Groups

• Lesbian Sex Mafia (New York) (*we have a membership reciprocity agreement with them)
• Bound by Desire (Austin) (*we have a membership reciprocity agreement with them)
• F.I.S.T. (Baltimore/D.C.)
• L.A. RAWW (Radical and Wicked Women) Los Angeles women's group

Mixed S/M Groups and Other Resources

• Orange Coast Leather Assembly
• Threshold (LA's mixed group)
• The Crucible Washington DC's Only BDSM Nightclub
• The Portland Leather Alliance
• The Wet Spot: Seattle's Sex Positive Community Center
• Black Rose (*we have a membership reciprocity agreement with them)
• Club X San Diego's pansexual leather/ SM/ fetish group
• NLA (National Leather Association)
• Journeyman Academy An S/m Academy (mixed gender)

Kinky Events Around the Country

• The BDSM Events Page A fairly comprehensive listing of groups & events