Joining the Exiles
Next Orientation:
Sunday, August 3rd, 2-4 pm
Marxist Library, Oakland
Who Can Join?
Any woman, or MTF, over 18 years of age, whose gender self-identification is other than male. Local members must attend an Orientation before joining.
This page describes the orientation process to become a member. To learn more about what benefits you receive once you are a member, see our Membership page.
Will you Accommodate my Special Needs?
I am hard of hearing and in a wheelchair. Can you accommodate my needs? Yes, the facility is wheelchair accessible. The Exiles know that there is a large Deaf Leather community, and we are pleased to offer sign language interpretation at montly programs and at orientation by arrangement.
If you need sign language interpretation please contact us at least a week before the meeting. We'll call you or email you back. To get in touch with us, call our voicemail number (415-835-4739) or send email. If you have general questions about the orientation meeting or The Exiles, please drop a line to our Orientation Officer at LisaR (at) theexiles (dot) org . (If you need to request an interpreter, please write to the same person and put "orientation interpreter needed" in the subject line.)
How Do I Join?
To join as an individual, you must attend Orientation. This costs $10.00 to help with the rental cost for the room (no one turned away for lack of funds). In exchange, we'll give you a free pass to an Exiles monthly program. To make things faster and easier on everyone, bring small bills if you can. You must bring a legal picture ID with you, for age verification. We start on time and do not admit latecomers, so please plan accordingly. The doors are closed shortly after the meeting begins. If you live outside the area, you can join as an associate without attending an orientation, but you don't get all the benefits either.
Why Must I Attend an Orientation?
Because we want to make sure all our members are introduced to basic BDSM safety and concepts like RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).
What Will I Learn in the Orientation?
In Orientation, we'll cover the basics of several different kinds of BDSM play. While this by no means will make you an BDSM expert, we want to emphasize that keeping you safe - and keeping those you play with safe - is an important goal of The Exiles. Our main focus is education and safety, so if you just want some good information and aren't interested in joining The Exiles, that's okay.
When is the Next Orientation?
Sunday, August 3rd,
2-4 pm at The Marxist Library, 6501 Telegraph Ave, Oakland
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Where are the Orientations held?
East Bay Location:
The Marxist Library, 6501 Telegraph Ave, Oakland
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Dates: 8/03/08, 12/07/08
Time: 2 - 4:00pm
San Francisco Location:
The Castro Community Meeting Room, 2nd floor, 501 Castro (at 18th), in the Bank of America building from 7:30 - 9:30 pm. This location is wheelchair accessible. (map)
Dates: 10/03/08
Time: 7:30 - 9:30pm