Become A Member

Attending an Orientation is required to become a member. In Orientation, we'll cover the basics of different kinds of BDSM play. While this by no means will make you a BDSM expert, we want to emphasize that keeping you safe - and keeping those you play with safe - is an important goal of The Exiles. Our main focus is education and safety. [read more]

New to BDSM?

Many people are curious about BDSM but might be a little reluctant to investigate their new found (or old) curiosity. Our Orientation is a fun class that will teach you the BDSM basics and will dispell any myths. You will be made to feel welcomed. However if you're too shy to meet us in person, checkout out our Resources page and do your research online from the comfort and safety of your home. But if you want to get out of the house and find out what this BDSM stuff is all about, come to our monthly Program or attend an orientation.

Volunteers Needed

Volunteering is a wonderful way to meet new people and serve your community. The Exiles can find a job for you to do. Consider volunteering. It's a great way to meet interesting people.. [read more]. Here's a few events where we can use your willing heart:

• Our Monthly Programs
• Play Parties
• Special events like our Meet & Greet, Carnal Carnival, etc