About Us

 

The Organization

The Exiles is an educational group for women who have a positive personal interest in BDSM between women. The group provides educational events where women with all levels of experience will have a safe place to meet, explore and share information about safety, play techniques and resources, and connect with the leather community locally and nationally.

We are comprised solely of volunteers - from the officers to the presenters. Many thanks to the people who have worked to make the Exiles YOUR club. Volunteer today!

Contacting the Exiles

The Exiles
P.O. Box 14338
San Francisco, CA 94114

We have a NEW Voicemail Number! Got a question? Need help? Don’t have access to your email today? Call us anytime leave a message!
415-938-SFSM (415-938-7376)

Here's a list of specific email addresses. Please notice that there are no automatic mailing links on the Exiles web site anymore. "Web spiders" like to crawl around the web and look for things they can harvest (like email addresses) and we just got tired of all the spam.

  • Co-Coordinator: Robin
    robin (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Co-Coordinator: Val
    val (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Co-Coordinators:  (Robin and Val)
    cocos (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Membership: DJ
    membership (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Treasurer:  Marilyn
    treasurer (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Recorder:  Robin B.
    TheSecretary (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Newsletter:  Tee
    fringe_editor (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Website:  Countess
    website (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Doorkeeper:  Mercy
    doorkeeper (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Sergeant-at-Arms: Liza
    sergeant (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Orientation:  Vacant
    OrientationOfficer (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Public Relations:  Vacant
    PR (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Volunteering: Tracy/marj
    volunteer (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • Exiles on-line calendar:  
    calendar (at) theexiles (dot) org
  • General Info:
    PRoutreach (at) theexiles (dot) org

If you are interested in presenting a program for the Exiles, go to our Administration page for details.

Our Monthly Activities

slapface The Exiles' host a monthly program on the 3rd Friday of every month at The Women's Building in San Francisco [map] . Past program topics include: Fire Play, Branding, Radical Touch, Sex Bondage, BDSM & Disabilities, The Sensuous Power of Fisting, 24x7 D/s relationships, to name a few.

Our business meetings occur on the 1st Sunday of the month, alternating each month between San Francisco and Oakland. Members are invited and encouraged to attend.

Our Events & Participation

  • Novice Night - our "sampler" program for newcomers & old timers (TBD).
  • San Francisco LGBT Pride - we host a booth at Pride for info on the Exiles (June)
  • Volunteer Party - Our way of saying Thank You to our volunteers (TBD)
  • Folsom Meet & Greet - our pickup party prior to the Folsom St. Fair (Sept).
  • Carnal Carnival - a fundraiser with fun and games (Dec)

Our Associations

We are associated with the following fine organizations: